Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 4)

Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 4)

Is it wrong to pay attention to details? How does it really work? In this episode I discuss how selective attention leads us to perfectionistic behaviors and invite you to check the impact of those actions when doing things that you deeply care about.

Show notes with time-stamps

00:00 The Art of Paying Attention to Details: A Steve Jobs Case Study
01:44 The Beauty and Curse of Selective Attention
02:48 The Fine Line: When Attention to Details Becomes a Hindrance
04:46 Strategies to Manage Overwhelming Attention to Details
06:33 Redefining Values Beyond Perfection
Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 5)

Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 5)

In this episode, I speak briefly about the intersection of procrastination and perfectionism. How, although they may seem to be different and isolated problems, they are in fact not.

Show notes with time-stamps

01:00 Navigating Life During a Pandemic: Staying Safe and Sane
01:25 Wrapping Up the Perfectionist Series: A Recap
02:22 Procrastination and Perfectionism: Understanding the Connection
04:32 Practical Tips to Combat Procrastination Driven by Fear of Mistakes
11:54 Creating a Reward System: Appreciating Your Hard Work
12:49 Gentleness and Self-Compassion: Key to Overcoming Procrastination
How to approach perfectionistic behaviors without losing yourself with Clarissa Ong, Ph.D.

How to approach perfectionistic behaviors without losing yourself with Clarissa Ong, Ph.D.

In this episode, I talk with Clarissa Ong, a predoctoral intern at McLean Hospital/Harvard Medical School about the difference between values and pliance, how Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) approaches perfectionistic behaviors, what’s unique about it, and how to pay attention to rules when wanting to do things right and perfect.

About Clarissa

Clarissa is an Assistant Professor and the Psychology Clinic Director at the University of Toledo. She completed her Ph.D. in Clinical/Counseling Psychology at Utah State University, her predoctoral clinical internship at McLean Hospital/Harvard Medical School, and her postdoctoral training at the Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders at Boston University and CBTeam. Her research focuses on developing, evaluating, and disseminating effective interventions guided by behavioral and process-based principles.

Resources

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01:17 Meet Clarissa: A Deep Dive into Perfectionism Research
02:17 Exploring the Roots and Patterns of Perfectionism
04:49 The Shift to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for Perfectionism
07:21 Understanding Values in the Context of Perfectionism
09:55 Navigating the Challenges of Values and Avoidance in Therapy
15:53 The Power of Self-Compassion and Kindness in Overcoming Perfectionism
 

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How to “get things done” in a sustainable, livable, and enjoyable way with Elizabeth Saunders

How to “get things done” in a sustainable, livable, and enjoyable way with Elizabeth Saunders

In this episode, I chat with Elizabeth Saunders, a Time Coach who specializes in helping her clients to “get things done” in a way that is sustainable, livable, and enjoyable.

Elizabeth shares with us how she was playing-it-safe by working as much as she could, how she made the shift from being a human-doing to a human-being, how she approaches projects by considering seasonal distress, how she handles her fears of not doing things right, and how she overcomes anxious moments by taking action and getting experiential knowledge.

About Elizabeth

Elizabeth is the founder and CEO of Real Life E, a time management coaching company that empowers individuals who feel guilty, overwhelmed and frustrated to feel peaceful, confident and accomplished. She was named one of the World’s Top 30 Time Management Professionals by Global Gurus. The Christian division of her company focuses on a God-centered approach to time management through Divine Time Management.

Prior to founding her own business in 2005, Elizabeth worked for Meredith Corporation, the publisher of magazines such as Better Homes and Gardens and Ladies Home Journal, VNU Business Media, and Abbott Laboratories. Elizabeth graduated summa cum laude from Drake University.

When she’s not helping people be less stressed, Elizabeth loves traveling, spending time with friends and family, and swimming!

Resources

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01:00 Meet Elizabeth: A Time Management Coach’s Journey
02:13 The Power of Planning: Elizabeth’s Time Management Tips
04:52 Finding Balance and Overcoming Anxiety
13:22 Discovering Personal Values and Redefining Success
16:51 Navigating Stress and Making Meaningful Choices
24:05 Embracing Imperfection and Learning from Mistakes
 

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Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 2)

Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 2)

This is part 2 of a series I’m doing on perfectionism.

What drives us to do things right and perfect?

Curious? Listen to this episode.

Show notes with time-stamps

01:00 The Journey of Writing a Book Proposal: A Personal Anecdote
01:49 Understanding the Fear of Making Mistakes
02:00 Exploring Perfectionism and Its Impact
02:12 The Power of Caring and Its Connection to Fear
04:40 Strategies to Handle the Fear of Making Mistakes
Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 3)

Dr. Z. on perfectionism (part 3)

NEW PODCAST EPISODE: PERFECTIONISM (part 3)⁠

This is part 3 of a series of perfectionism.

In this episode, I share five skills you can practice to handle the fear of making mistakes when it’s getting in your way of living a rich, purposeful, and meaningful life.⁠

Show notes with time-stamps

01:00 Diving Deep into Perfectionism: Understanding and Overcoming
02:31 Leonardo da Vinci’s Quest for Perfection: A Relatable Journey
04:51 Five Steps to Handle the Fear of Making Mistakes
08:44 Recap and Encouragement: Making Ideas Happen

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