There’s an email that’s been sitting in your drafts for eleven days, and the only thing stopping it is one sentence in your head that you’ve never checked.
This episode is about defusion, one of the six core processes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and about what happens when a thought and the world get glued together so tightly you can’t tell them apart.
Dr. Z explains fusion in plain language, why the thoughts that run your life sound like good judgment instead of fear, and how most of them are orders you’ve been following for years without calling them orders. Then you get four skills to put a little daylight between the sentence and what your hands do next.
You will learn:
- Fusion, plainly.
- Why your mind says it’s cold outside and you’re going to humiliate yourself in exactly the same voice.
- Why arguing with the thought, or swapping it for a positive one, keeps you in the same fight.
- Four skills to practice defusion.
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Resources mentioned
- Audio guide You’re not your thoughts (free) → https://proud-snow-5694.kit.com/89ff3918d3
- Playing-It-Safe Questionnaire (free) → https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/
- ACT Coaching for anxiety-based struggles → https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/
- Therapy at East Bay Behavior Therapy Center → https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/








