This podcast episode is about values: what they are, why “just set some boundaries” was always going to fail, and ways to find yours in your everyday life.
What you will learn:
- A definition of values.
- Why being a good parent is not a value.
- The two places your direction gets supplied from when you do not have your own: approval and avoidance
- Three practices to tap onto what matters to you in your everyday life.
You can finish these:
- get the promotion
- run the race
- have the conversation with your brother
- clear the inbox
You cannot finish these:
- Being patient
- Being honest
- Being generous
- Being unhurried
The first list is goals: you complete them, you check them off, and then you need new ones.
The second list is values.
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Show notes with time-stamps
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Resources mentioned
- Values-Based Review: Life Audit (free) → https://proud-snow-5694.ck.page/d2a5e77ba3
- Playing-It-Safe Questionnaire (free) → https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/
- ACT Coaching for anxiety-based struggles → https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/
- Therapy at East Bay Behavior Therapy Center → https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/








