How to work through time anxiety, practice gratitude, and embrace acceptance

Doing things right, perfect & precisely: perfectionism, Procrastinating, postponing and delaying

It was an honor to chat with Oliver Burkeman, columnist for the Guardian, a journalist by training, and author of the books:

  • 4000 weeks: time management for mortals
  • Happiness: the antidote for people who can’t stand positive thinking.

If you haven’t read Oliver’s books, I would highly recommend them!

He’s one of those writers that do a fantastic job sharing science in a story format, and he does it so elegantly that, after you read either a chapter he wrote or his column in the Guardian, you just want to read more.

I have been following Oliver’s work for years and had so many questions to ask him about, but of course, there were time constraints.

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Key Takeaways

In this first part of our conversation, Oliver shared:

I remind myself of the last paragraph in Oliver’s book, The Four Thousand Weeks:

The average human lifespan is absurd, terrifying, and insultingly short. But that isn’t a reason for unremitting despair or for living in an anxiety-fueled panic about making the most of your limited time. It’s a cause for relief.

You get to give up on something that was always impossible – the quest to become the optimized, infinitely capable, emotionally, invincible, fully independent person you’re officially supposed to be. Then you get to roll up your sleeves and start work on something that’s gloriously possible instead.”

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About Dr. Z.

I’m originally from Bolivia, South America, and am a psychologist by training. I’m formally trained in empirically supported treatments, and when I say “formally,” I mean that since 2004 I have received intensive training in them, particularly in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT). 

Over the past 18 years, I have created resources for and worked with overthinkers and overachievers dealing with all types of anxiety-related struggles: perfectionism, procrastination, productivity anxiety, uncertainty intolerance, indecision, impostor phenomenon, overthinking, phobias, rumination, panic, worry and obsessive-compulsive disorder. I absolutely love my job!

In 2019, I was nominated as a fellow by the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science because of my contributions related to the applications of ACT for anxiety-based struggles. I’m the author of seven books and the co-author of three (see the section on previously written books).

I’m the founder and director of the East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, a boutique private center in the San Francisco Bay Area that offers therapy and coaching for anyone experiencing anxiety-based struggles.

In 2023, I gave a TEDx talk, “Stop playing-it-safe and start living” that has more than 264K downloads.

While I’m a psychologist by training and science-based by passion, my style is jargon-free, accessible, caring, and lighthearted; teaching ACT skills doesn’t have to be boring or inaccessible, so I do my best to make every skill I teach—in any format—as engaging as possible. 

I believe that learning to navigate anxiety-based reactions is one of the key skills of the 21st century, and I’m passionate about it.

I'm passionate about disseminating ACT skills for anxiety-based struggles.

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